Author: Alex Baccara

Article:
So, you've just been told "let's take a little break from each
other." What does that really mean? It means your ex is breaking
up with you and doesn't have the courage to tell you outright.
No matter how it's done a break up is devastating. Your heart is
breaking and all you want to do is get your ex back and enjoy
life again.

The truth is you CAN get your ex back but first you need to take
a deep breath and calm down. Relationship experts all agree that
the most important step to winning your ex back is to create an
effective plan of action.

It only takes ONE mistake to ruin any chance of getting your ex
back!

<b><i>Some things you shouldn't do</b></i>

<b>Call Your Ex </b> The last thing you should do is call your
ex right away. When you first break up your emotions are too raw
and you are not thinking straight. Calling your ex right away
shows that you have not put any thought into the reason(s) for
the break up in the first place and your ex won't appreciate
that. It also makes you look desperate.

<b>Apologize the Wrong Way</b> You've done something wrong and
think that maybe if you apologize you can make everything right.
Well, sometimes that just ain't so. In the initial stages of a
break up it's best to take some time to think if what you did or
said or didn't do is the important factor in the break-up. It
might just be something you never even thought of and
apologizing will only make it worse. But if you are sure that
what you did or didn't do is the reason for the breakup then
apologize. But do it with some dignity. And, don't take the
blame for everything that went wrong in your relationship. There
are techniques to apologizing that bring you together not
further apart.

<b>Use Threats or Beg</b> The more you try to make your ex do
what you want them to do (i.e. getting back with you) the faster
they will run away. You're not crazy, you're just
heartbroken...don't chase your ex away by making it look like
you're a nut.

<b>Tell Your Ex You Can Still Be Friends</b> No one believes
this and rarely does it happen. It's usually used as a ploy to
just keep your ex near you and the lines of communication open.
Your ex needs to "subliminally" learn that your ultimate goal is
getting back together so using the word "friends" takes it to
the wrong level.

<b>Wait Too Long</b> You must give yourself at least 30 days to
cool down, calm down and rethink what you want and don't want in
your relationship. But don't wait longer than that to try and
get your ex back because there is a little known "bug" that
begins to grow after that and it is called "indifference." The
opposite of love is not hate...it's indifference...when they
just don't care anymore and nothing you do is going to work.

If you want to get your ex back you need an action plan. You
want techniques that work fast to get your ex back not drive
your ex away. The 30 day period is the time for that. This is
when you must discover the clues that will tell you if your ex
still loves you and what to say and do to get your ex back and
keep your ex for a long, long time into the future.

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About the author:
Alex Baccara is a relationship expert with over 30 years of
bringing couples back together again under circumstances that
were thought to be irreconcilable.

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