By Danny R. Smith Your instincts tell you he’s cheating. Your girlfriends say confront him, follow him, check his phone and email; threaten him with physical violence . . . Okay, skip the violence unless your calendar is open for the next few years. Forget trying to follow him yourself, but do check his cell phone records and email. (Doing your own surveillance is rarely successful and more often tips him to your suspicion.) It’s really about opportunity. If you narrow your focus to the mostly likely times of opportunity, you’ll be more likely to find the evidence to back up your instincts. Also, if you’ve decided to hire a private investigator, you can save yourself a lot of money by targeting these highly suspicious times of opportunity. Here are some of the more common cover stories of cheaters: “I have to go out of town on business.” ©This is a great opportunity for all the obvious reasons and should certainly be a time you consider deploying surveillance. If that isn’t an option, make notes of this time period and be sure to study phone records when you receive your next bill. Look at calls before, during and after the trip. Check phone numbers on Google; you may be surprised how many phone numbers will show up in a search as they’ve been listed on websites such as Linked In, Manta, etc. Remember, if you are unable to identify the owner of a phone number, a private investigator may still be able to. “Honey, I’m headed to the gym.” ©This is a great opportunity for one simple reason: he or she can return home showered—meaning their bodies are void of incriminating scents and other evidence without raising a lot of suspicion. They may also feel empowered by being able to look you in the eyes and say they had a great workout; maybe they did! “I’m working late tonight.” ©We all know the dangers of workplace romances, but the question is whether your significant other is really working late at the office or has he or she slipped off for a little fling? Time it and call an hour later. Is he still in the office? Is he answering his cell phone? If not, is there a legitimate reason why? If you suspect something is going on, this is another great time for surveillance. Other considerations would be monitoring his odometer to see if the miles add up to his commute, or placing a tracking device on his vehicle. Most private investigators can provide this service. Some people have businesses where they can actually have their affair at their place of employment! This is a whole other challenge but depending on the circumstances of your case, a competent investigator should have several suggestions. “We’re going fishing . . .” ©Hunting, hiking and fishing trips can be a great cover for a weekend with the other man or woman. For one, oftentimes the trip is planned for an area where cell phone service is unavailable. This allows them to turn off the phone and not worry about having to lie to you all weekend. Again, surveillance would be best. Check the odometer and ask plenty of questions. What about photos? Didn’t he take some pictures? Wouldn’t most people have a digital camera in their pack for their prize catch or that beautiful view? “My girlfriend, Amanda . . .” ©Let me pick on the girls here a bit. I’ve seen more than a couple flings of women where their cover story is simply their girlfriend. If the “Girls Night Out” evenings or weekends are too common, pay attention. The mention of a Tupperware party makes a man’s eyes glaze; what a perfect cover story that could be! If they leave you with the remote, a pizza and plenty of beer, either be suspicious or thankful! As a final note let me say this: Sometimes your instincts are wrong! I have worked a few cases where after a couple nights of surveillance I’ve been convinced the alleged cheater isn’t that at all. Maybe insecurities are causing false suspicions, or maybe you are unfairly judging your guy by your last guy or other men. Having said that, I’ve found that in those instances, the client thought the knowledge I provided was a worthy investment for their peace of mind. But if you’re going to rely on an investigator’s report and opinion in this regard, make sure you’ve hired a reputable, competent and reliable investigator. About the Author: Danny R. Smith, a retired homicide detective from the Los Angeles County Sheriff's Department, is the founder of DRS Investigations, LLC, a full-service private investigation firm in Boise, Idaho. http://www.drsinvestigations.com Source: http://www.isnare.com Permanent Link: http://www.isnare.com/?aid=247988&ca=Cheating In partnership with Cheapwads, the totally free source of information, we are pleased to offer you an exciting, new, and entirely free professional resource. Visit our Free Industry resource center today to browse our selection of over 1000 complimentary Industry magazine subscriptions. Get popular titles including:

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By Nahshon Roberts While 90 percent of Americans believe that adultery is wrong, conservative estimates put about 22 percent of men committing adultery, while 11 percent of women dare to do likewise. If you suspect that your husband is cheating on you, then it is time to gather irrefutable proof. And what better way to do so than by installing wireless spy cams in their favorite meeting place? But first, brush up on adultery basics. You will need information before jumping to conclusions and decisions. Adultery Defined Though there are subtleties in the legal definitions of adultery, it is commonly defined as engaging in voluntary sexual relations with a partner other than your spouse, especially one of the opposite sex. If your husband is indeed committing adultery, then you need proof that he was not raped because of the voluntary clause. Then again, cases involving men being raped by women are exceedingly rare, so you can cross that out. Even wireless spy cams with their technology will not be able to fake a rape scene. If your husband engaged in sexual intercourse with the same sex or with animals, then this is not considered adultery in the general understanding of the term. However, some states do grant fault-based divorce on the ground of homosexuality and bestiality being discovered after marriage. Adultery Caught in the Act at Home You can install wireless spy cams around the house, especially in his private study where he takes his private calls. Since your husband will not think about these high-tech gadgets being installed without his full knowledge and consent, snooping on his private (and possibly suspicious) conversations is genius! You can listen in on his side of the conversation and watch his reactions, all without fear that he will hear the telephone click as you lift the receiver. You can glean important information like their meeting time and place, which you can then spy on. If you are one of the very unlucky few, you can even catch your husband committing adultery right in your home. You will have to deal with the pain of losing both your husband and your best friend, if such is the case. If it was the nanny, then the additional wireless spy cams you had installed provided for unpleasant surprises aside from child abuse. Adultery Outside the Home Many acts of adultery are committed in love nests. If you can install wireless spy cams in your husband's love nest, then go ahead. Not only will you prove sexual intercourse, but you can prove an ongoing emotional relationship that might be your ace in divorce proceedings. However, you need to consult your trusted lawyer on this matter. Depending on the state you live in and where the adultery is committed, installing wireless spy cams outside your private property can constitute a criminal offense. Remember that you are setting out to do yourself good, not throw yourself in jail. Your good-for-nothing husband deserves to be in jail while you go scot-free with your conjugal properties and alimonies. There are many ways to catch a cheating husband, but irrefutable proof through videotaped acts is still one of your best options. Go for it! About the Author: You will need reasonable proof of your husband's infidelity. Gather your proofs through hidden spy cameras (http://www.video-surveillance-guide.com/spy-camera-glasses.htm) installed around the house. These home spy cameras (http://www.video-surveillance-guide.com/home-spy-camera.htm) will be worth e Source: http://www.isnare.com Permanent Link: http://www.isnare.com/?aid=265667&ca=Cheating In partnership with Cheapwads, the totally free source of information, we are pleased to offer you an exciting, new, and entirely free professional resource. Visit our Free Industry resource center today to browse our selection of over 1000 complimentary Industry magazine subscriptions. Get popular titles including:

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Free online dating sites are plentiful, but finding the best ones is as easy as finding the right link. A dating site will help your social life, so why not take advantage of free services?

There a number of reasons to take advantage of free online dating sites. Dating sites are set up for the purpose of finding dating opportunities in your own area. Because not everyone has access to good places to meet potential dating partners, an online dating site offers the ideal solution to finding a prospective date for just a casual evening out, or for long term relationships. Even in the urban area, it's not always possible to find a place to meet a dating selection without exposing yourself to unwanted advances. By using a free dating site in your area, you can check out those singles who are looking for someone to have fun with. Here are some reasons why using a dating site is a great idea:


Economics

When you are trying out the concept of free online dating, why spend a lot of money on various subscription sites when you can get the same information about people looking for dating in your area at no cost. Online sites that cost nothing are not that hard to find, and if you look for one that has a large client base, you can usually find people in your area who are also interested in dating.

Variety

Because there are no costs to the end user for free online dating sites, you may find a wider selection of people looking for dating services on a free site rather than a paid site. When someone is just looking for the opportunity to build dating options, they probably don't want to spend a lot of money at more than one site. This type of single person would be more likely to list with several free sites in hopes of expanding the opportunities for selection without paying for several sites. If it's free, many people will not be so concerned about losing money and will go ahead and sign up with several sites.

Geography

You may think that because you live in a small town that you know everyone of dating age in the area. If you sign up at one or more of the free online dating sites, you might be surprised to find that there are people in your area that you didn't even think of as potential dating material. Maybe your paths just never crossed before, or maybe you didn't appreciate all their great qualities. If you get to know them on an online site for dating, you might just find that your viewpoint on the old hometown has changed.

Activities

Sometimes people using a free online dating site will wonder what they can do about going out with a person that they meet online. To begin with, it's often enough to do some visiting online and just chat with others so that you get an opportunity to know them better. You won't usually feel stressed about having to go out with a stranger and not know anything about their likes and dislikes. You've already learned what he or she likes to do for recreation and hopefully you like much the same things, so finding a dating activity should be quite simple. and here is the rest of it. Remember, your best resource on the internet for finding a free dating site information can be found at Free Online Dating or Online Dating. Look for links to answer all your queries and join a free site at zero cost today.

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