Author: Daryl Campbell
Article:
It has been one of the great marvels of out time if not the
greatest. The potential to instantaneously meet and talk with
people of different backgrounds from around the world is a
phenomenon. What makes it even more special is it all takes
place from the privacy of your own home.
Internet World Stats estimates there are now over one billion
people on the world wide web. This means that on any given day
roughly twenty one percent of the total world population is
online.
However there is another phenomenon taking place when it comes
to the internet. The online world is rapidly becoming the place
for extramarital relations.
Dr. Michael Adamse is the co-author of "Affairs of the Net: The
Cybershrinks' Guide to Online Relationships; "Approximately 70%
of time on-line is spent in chat rooms or sending e-mail; of
these interactions, the vast majority are romantic in nature."
Chatting it up romantically with someone other than your current
partner is bad enough but all too often it does not stop there.
Whether someone tells themselves that cyber messages are the
boundary they will not go beyond or not, the powerful seed known
as curiosity has already been planted.
If two people who have never met are hitting it off with some
kind of correspondence (doesn't matter if it is in a chat room
or the old fashion pen pal letters), then it is only natural to
want to know more about each other. An initial phone
conversation may be the next step after all the cyber back and
forth. Again they are only curious and tell themselves this is
as far as it goes. That is until they hear the other person's
voice and the phone conversation turns out to be better than the
online exchanges. Then it's only a hop, skip and a leap to
getting together for lunch or whatever else comes their way. And
remember it all started with a little curiosity.
What gives it that extra kick is that a cheating spouse can
remain anonymous during the whole process. Their significant
other may not have a clue what is going on since the usual tell
tale signs of marriage infidelity are non existent. If the
cheating spouse also happens to be more computer savvy then they
have a real advantage. Let's face it, with the internet becoming
an integral part of our lives, you may take no notice of your
spouse sitting at the terminal for long periods of time or that
every occasion you use the computer, the browser history has
been wiped clean.
Let your instincts be your guide. Politely interrupt your spouse
and ask to use the computer. Gage their reaction. Also mention
to them that the websites you visited were stored in the browser
memory; yet every time you log on they seem to disappear. Again
check out their response and watch the body language. Are your
instincts telling you anything?
The internet is a wonderful tool that has unleashed all kinds of
possibilities but for every positive there is a negative.
Marriage infidelity can take place regardless if someone is
online or not. Regrettably, we've now reached a point where a
spouse can carry on an extramarital affair with their
significant other sitting in the same room.
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